hallavaris: (Yoite light)
As a starter for the new year I'm going to do a friends cut. I know it may be a bit silly after adding all the new people in the friending frenzies lately but there are a few inactive journals of people (old friends) who never write any blog posts and people who hardly ever comment or people I just don't feel connected to for some reason. I don't really see what is the point in keeping it going. I don't think you guys read my LJ and even if you do I find this kind of one-sided sharing rather odd.

I am going to remove some of the new people as well because there has not been interaction or I feel that we just do not click after all. I bet you're wonderful people but I do not feel comfortable about having LJ friends who never comment or even reply to my comments on their journal posts. That's not how this thing works for me.

In the friending frenzies I always said I prefer quality over quantity and that I hope people only add me if they're really interested in making friends with me. I honestly want to concentrate on the friendships that really exist or have started to bloom and at least some weaving of connection is happening. I do not have any hard feelings about anyone and I don't regret giving it a try but it just did not happen, so that's it.

If you are an old friend and come back to LJ some day, please send me a private message or reply to this post and I will add you back. :)

Date: 2014-01-04 07:35 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] meathiel.livejournal.com
I saw that you still have [livejournal.com profile] cyanotica on your f-list. Errrm ... you probably don't know that she died a few years ago? You know she had a heart condition ... Sorry to tell you but I felt that you should know.

Date: 2014-01-04 08:08 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] tindomerel.livejournal.com
Oh, I had no idea at all that she is dead. :(

Date: 2014-01-05 11:05 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] meathiel.livejournal.com
I got to know by chance when her ex-husband posted s.th. about her on FB ... I didn't realise at first it meant she'd passed ... :-(
I also met her at WGT one time ...

Date: 2014-01-04 09:49 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] kehleyr.livejournal.com
I prefer quality over quantity Yes... well put <3

Date: 2014-01-04 10:37 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] sofisticat.livejournal.com
I hope you let me stay.

Date: 2014-01-05 04:15 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] alabastard.livejournal.com
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Draco's health and headaches don't allow him to be on LJ much, and I am so busy it's hard for me to post much, as I read mostly from work and only post occasionally, as I write in LJ as a sort of archive, milestones and posts I'd wantt o keep and reread, but I read him the friendlist posts when we can find the time at home.. however, do what you must, we're not here as often as others, and not much on commenting unless we have something to add or say, others feel different and use this far more as a social venue.

Date: 2014-01-05 02:32 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] molaina.livejournal.com
Glad to still be on your list :)

Date: 2014-01-05 10:11 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] serena-b.livejournal.com
I completely understand this. I have some friends that never reply to anything I post ever. Or some friends that never post. Like, I'm not saying people have to read and comment on everything I write but some interaction is nice, otherwise why bother being friends with someone at all?

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